I have been with the b/f for 7 years, we live together, this relationship is not working for me anymore. I have expressed that to him, he doesnt get it. I end up making myself miserable to try to make the relationship work. I do not have financial resources to just up and move out, I would have to plan and save. When I try to be honest and tell him I am not happy in this relationship, it just ends up in arguing and hurt feelings.